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Where will your communication skills take you?

A Fabulous Discussion

1/20/2018

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In the spirit of a year of giving, I'd like to direct your attention to an article written by a friend of mine on the subject.  He says it well, so I won't bother to duplicate it in my blog, but instead I'll direct you to his words.
Just click on the link in the previous sentence.

Next, I'd like to hear from you.  you can email or simply comment here.  What do you think a year of giving will look like?
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What do you really believe?

1/19/2018

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Welcome to a new year!  Here's an interesting thought: self-control is linked to success (numerous research studies support this), but willpower may not be the way to go and, in fact, may actually be detrimental to our health.  (A study by Greg Miller, a professor of psychology at Northwestern University, showed that forcing yourself to "power through" increases stress that negativity impacts you both physically and psychologically.)   As 2017 came to an end, I decided that rather than making new year's resolutions, instead I'd watch others make them and I watched person after person fall victim to a pattern that I knew very well: high hopes of change and then crashing into pile of failure.  I stopped making resolutions because in the end, they typically made me feel bad about myself. 

So, how exactly are we supposed to develop self-control and succeed?  There are people doing it, so what's the deal here?

Well, after doing some research I have come to the conclusion that those who succeed have more than sheer willpower.  As sappy as it may sound, what they ultimately have is love.  People who succeed at making their lives, both personal and professional, into something amazing have connections with the world around them.  They have an appreciation for life and they don't just feel they need to "power through" anything, because they understand that they need to invest in themselves and in those around them.  They get joy from this present moment because they choose to see it.  This allows them to be okay with putting off the gratitude of a brownie that would break their diet or an expensive outfit that would impact their savings.

So, what does this mean in terms of becoming the best version of ourselves possible?  Well, it means we should consider the following:
  1. Valuing and enhancing our connections with supportive friends and family.
  2. Having a mindset of gratitude all the time.
  3. Taking the time to meditate, eat right, and get enough sleep.
  4. Caring for and supporting others.
  5. Always finding ways to see good in ourselves and others, rather than focusing on just the things we feel need to be changed.
If you made new year's resolutions, share them with friends and family and cut yourself a break.  Be patient as you hold a picture of a great future ahead of you that will come in time.
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    Lynne M. Smelser, Ph.D. is an expert in communication.  Her speciality is helping people to look internally to find barriers.  Over the years she has helped companies create dynamic content and open communication channels.  She also has assisted many individuals in  overcoming communication anxiety and developing projects such as novels, memoirs, and ebooks.

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